Blaine Neufeld

From smashed wedding cakes to CrossFit crushes, we’re talking marriage red flags, rebuilding trust after betrayal, and how to guard your relationship from subtle dangers—without sounding like your spouse’s preacher.

We bust the “logical vs. emotional” myth, unpack the head–heart–gut framework, and share practical tools—“it felt like…”, absorbing the first jab, and naming emotions—to strengthen marriage, conflict, and parenting.

Q&A time: staying connected with unpredictable schedules, business meeting vs date night, high/low drive and physical touch, dividing housework fairly, and how to align individual dreams into a shared one. Real talk, practical moves.

What happens when truth and love collide in marriage? We unpack why honesty, maturity, and intentionality are essential to unity—and how speaking truth in love transforms relationships.

We unpack how couples truly grow: build connection first, then stack skills. Growth mindset, tiny daily habits, community, and safety over nagging. Prehab > rehab. Practical steps you can start tonight.--Be chosen by a child. Poverty steals choices from kids—give those choices back. Sign up, submit your photo, and a child will choose you as their sponsor. Learn more about Chosen at World Vision: "The power to choose is in a child’s hands." https://go.bayside.church/worldvisionpodcast

We share how a retreat reshaped our view of marriage, rest, and partnership—and why dreaming together may be the most important thing you do as a couple.

We unpack the “window of tolerance”—hyper vs. hypoarousal, co-regulation, and simple tools (hello, breathing) to handle conflict, parenting chaos, and work stress—so you can fight for calm, not control.

Blaine and Adrienne celebrate 14 years of marriage—from sweet surprises to lost rings and everything in between—and reflect on what they’ve learned (and unlearned) along the way.

How do you keep your marriage strong while parenting kids with big personalities? Kevin and Blaine unpack five keys to unity in marriage—even when life gets chaotic.

We open the vault on a raw, insightful live Q&A with Dr. Barbara Wilson—covering everything from spiritual intimacy to sex after 70, toys, trauma, and turning vulnerability into connection.

Learn how open conversations about sex can transform your marriage, strengthen your parenting, and break old taboos—with expert tips from Dr. Wilson and real talk from Blaine and Adrienne.

Discover how couples can reignite intimacy, navigate vulnerability, and make sex meaningful again—featuring clinical psychologist Dr. Barbara Wilson and real-life marriage insights.

Discover why intimacy starts outside the bedroom. Kevin, Blaine and Adrienne welcome Dr. Barbara Wilson to unpack how trust, respect, and vulnerability shape connection and lasting love.

Kevin dives into Sue Johnson’s three types of recurring fights in marriage—Find the Bad Guy, Protest Polka, and Freeze & Flee—offering tools to break the loop and build deeper connection.

Discover how the stories we tell ourselves shape our feelings, actions, and relationships—with practical tools for deeper, more compassionate communication in marriage and beyond.

What if you never had to fight about money again? We unpack how financial trust, team systems, and intentional spending can transform your marriage.

What does disrespect really look like in marriage? Kevin, Blaine, and Adrian unpack the subtle ways we dishonor our partners—and how to rebuild trust and connection with intentional respect.

Respect isn’t just a nice-to-have in marriage—it’s essential. In this episode, we dive into what respect is, what it isn’t, and how to cultivate it in your relationship. Plus, real-life moments that prove respect makes all the difference!

Are differences in marriage a weakness or a strength? In this episode, we unpack how contrasting personalities, perspectives, and habits can actually strengthen relationships—if handled with respect and understanding. From dishwasher debates to financial mindsets, Blaine and Adrienne explore how their differences bring balance, growth, and unity.

Grief looks different for everyone—but what happens when two people in a marriage process loss in completely different ways? Blaine and Adrienne share their deeply personal miscarriage story, revealing the unexpected challenges, the healing power of community, and how suffering can either pull couples apart or make them stronger than ever.