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47 mins #60 Sep 03, 25

The Window of Tolerance

We unpack the “window of tolerance”—hyper vs. hypoarousal, co-regulation, and simple tools (hello, breathing) to handle conflict, parenting chaos, and work stress—so you can fight for calm, not control.

23 mins #59 Aug 27, 25

Attend & Attune, Part 2: The Neuroscience of Connection

Discover the neuroscience behind attending and attuning, why emotional safety boosts intimacy, and practical ways to connect deeply with your spouse every day.

22 mins #58 Aug 20, 25

Two Words That Could Transform Your Marriage

Discover how the simple habits of attending and attuning can radically strengthen your marriage, deepen connection, and create emotional safety in every relationship.

40 mins #57 Aug 13, 25

Canadian Chocolate, Lost Rings, and the Real Secrets of Marriage

Blaine and Adrienne celebrate 14 years of marriage—from sweet surprises to lost rings and everything in between—and reflect on what they’ve learned (and unlearned) along the way.

35 mins #56 Aug 06, 25

Why Smart Couples Don't Need to be Right

Why do some couples fight better? In this episode, Kevin unpacks the overlooked secret to healthy conflict: intellectual humility—and how it could transform your marriage.

44 mins #55 Jul 31, 25

How To Fight Fair

Discover how to turn conflict into connection and stop letting emotions drive your relationships with Kevin A. Thompson’s guide to fighting fair.

39 mins #1 Jun 27, 25

God’s Design, Our Delight: Turning Marital Tension into Growth

What if your biggest marital conflict is actually a God-given strength? Kevin unpacks Psalm 139 and shows how embracing differences can lead to deeper love and lasting connection.

38 mins #1 Jun 18, 25

Don’t Lose Yourself in Marriage

Marriage isn’t about losing yourself—it’s about building something new together. Kevin shares a powerful message on trust, individuality, and the beauty of integration in relationships.

48 mins #1 Jun 11, 25

How to Parent Together Without Pulling Apart

How do you keep your marriage strong while parenting kids with big personalities? Kevin and Blaine unpack five keys to unity in marriage—even when life gets chaotic.

41 mins #1 Jun 01, 25

The Hidden Power of Generosity in Marriage

What if generosity is the secret to a thriving marriage? Kevin sits down with generosity expert Jim Sheppard to explore how giving changes relationships—and lives.

57 mins #1 May 21, 25

What Nobody Talks About (But Everyone’s Asking) with Dr. Barbara Wilson

We open the vault on a raw, insightful live Q&A with Dr. Barbara Wilson—covering everything from spiritual intimacy to sex after 70, toys, trauma, and turning vulnerability into connection.

42 mins #1 May 14, 25

Breaking the Silence: How Couples Can Talk About Sex and Intimacy

Learn how open conversations about sex can transform your marriage, strengthen your parenting, and break old taboos—with expert tips from Dr. Wilson and real talk from Blaine and Adrienne.

41 mins #1 May 07, 25

What Great Lovers Understand: A Conversation with Dr. Barbara Wilson

Discover how couples can reignite intimacy, navigate vulnerability, and make sex meaningful again—featuring clinical psychologist Dr. Barbara Wilson and real-life marriage insights.

34 mins #1 Apr 30, 25

Beyond the Bedroom: Building Emotional Intimacy in Marriage

Discover why intimacy starts outside the bedroom. Kevin, Blaine and Adrienne welcome Dr. Barbara Wilson to unpack how trust, respect, and vulnerability shape connection and lasting love.

38 mins #1 Apr 23, 25

This Is Why You Keep Having the Same Fight in Marriage

Kevin dives into Sue Johnson’s three types of recurring fights in marriage—Find the Bad Guy, Protest Polka, and Freeze & Flee—offering tools to break the loop and build deeper connection.

37 mins #1 Apr 16, 25

The One Thing You Are Forgetting in Every Communication

Discover how the stories we tell ourselves shape our feelings, actions, and relationships—with practical tools for deeper, more compassionate communication in marriage and beyond.

45 mins #1 Apr 09, 25

Power Couple Finances: Systems That Save Your Sanity

What if you never had to fight about money again? We unpack how financial trust, team systems, and intentional spending can transform your marriage.

46 mins #1 Apr 02, 25

The Five Steps to Money Misery (And How to Avoid Them)

Is money hurting your marriage? Kevin and Adrienne dive into the five mistakes couples make with money—and how to fix them for good. This episode is part one of a two-part conversation you don’t want to miss.

53 mins #1 Mar 26, 25

Does Your Spouse Respect You? Part 2

What does disrespect really look like in marriage? Kevin, Blaine, and Adrian unpack the subtle ways we dishonor our partners—and how to rebuild trust and connection with intentional respect.

46 mins #1 Mar 19, 25

Does Your Spouse Respect You? Part 1

Respect isn’t just a nice-to-have in marriage—it’s essential. In this episode, we dive into what respect is, what it isn’t, and how to cultivate it in your relationship. Plus, real-life moments that prove respect makes all the difference!