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In this episode, we explore the hidden dangers of living like machines in marriage, emphasizing the power of rest and rejuvenation. Learn how exhaustion clouds judgment, increases selfishness, and harms relationships, and discover practical steps to reclaim rest.

Marriage is meant to be a union of two human beings, but are we really living that truth? In this episode, Kevin Thompson explores how overestimating or underestimating ourselves can erode intimacy, and offers a fresh perspective on embracing our full humanity in relationships.

In this episode, Kevin and Jay continue their discussion on the role shame plays in hindering healthy intimacy with individuals and couples.

In this conversation, Kevin is joined by Jay Stringer, author of Unwanted: How sexual brokenness reveals our way to healing.

In this episode of Change The Odds, Kevin talks with two callers, offering guidance on how to navigate life’s challenging moments while embracing the power of love and empathy. Tune in as he shares insights that can help transform difficulties into opportunities for personal growth and deeper connections with others.

Everyone is searching for work/life balance but what if that search is in vain? In this episode, Kevin talks about the myth of work/life balance and points toward a better way to find meaning and home and work.

In this episode, Kevin discusses the idea of happiness and marriage. Is it something you're supposed to get from marriage or something you're supposed to bring to marriage.

In this episode Kevin is joined by Leslie and Morgan as they talk about the ever changing nature of relationships.

It’s been said “women need love and men need respect.” But what a sad relationship that would be when men are unloved and women are disrespected. Respect matters to everyone, especially in marriage. In the episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about the importance of respect in marriage.

In this episode, Kevin is joined by Dr. Barbara Wilson as they answer questions sent in by viewers. From sex, communication and respect, listen as Kevin and Barbara answer your questions.

In this episode, Kevin talks with Matt Brown, founder of Sandals Church in Riverside, California. They discuss the latest trends in marriages on the west coast as well as pointing out some potential good news among young adults and their desire for emotional connection.

Pastors Kevin Thompson and Ray Johnston sit down with Tv's Dr. Phil and talk about his new book "We've Got Issues." Kevin, Ray, and Phil  address the growing issues with Christianity in America and the importance of being who you are on purpose.

Kevin talks with special guest Dr. Barbara Wilson about what happens in the brain during the different stages of a relationship.Barbara is a Doctor of clinical psychology and the founder of Freedom Bound Communications, and specializes in sexual bonding and healing.

What does a healthy relationship look like? Many people grow up without having a strong marriage modeled for them so they don’t even know what a good marriage is. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about 15 characteristics of a healthy relationship. 

It’s Q&A time. Everyone has questions about their relationship, but few people have a place to ask them. We are that place. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie answer questions from listeners. Text Marriage to 56316 to submit your anonymous question for future episodes.

Friendship is the foundation of a healthy marriage. How does one know if their friendship is strong? In this episode Leslie and Kevin look at the ten questions from the Change The Odds Marriage Assessment that deal with the topic of friendship. From trust to time to attention, take the assessment and listen to this discussion to increase your connection with your spouse. For more information about the assessment, go to changetheodds.com

The number one issue in marriage in 2024 is the issue of attention. As major corporations spend billions of dollars to gain our attention those who are often lose are the ones we love the most. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about the issue of attention—why has it become the most important issue in marriage, how do we control where our attention goes, and what to do if your spouse no longer sees you. This is the first topic in the Marriage Assessment used by Change The Odds to determine a couple’s friend, partner and lover score.  https://baysidechurchca.typeform.com/to/ov8ygQbu

In Episode 3 of Change the Odds the Podcast, Kevin and Leslie discuss what it means for a couple to become Friends, Partners & Lovers.  

The number of young adults who are delaying marriage has doubled in the last two decades. Why? Leslie and Kevin are joined by Curt Harlow as they discuss the pros and cons of delaying marriage.